Can I make a confession to you? For years I was the Queen of Procrastination. In fact I was so good at it that I could come up with incredible totally believable excuses as to why I didn’t get things done.

But it was killing all my hopes and dreams. :(

I wanted to be successful, I wanted to achieve things that very few other people did…
But as long as procrastination was my best friend that wasn’t going to happen.

So I made one of the hardest decisions of my life.

I broke up with procrastination and he didn’t like it and fought me tooth and nail to stay in my life.

It was a battle and there were days I won and days I lost.

So how did I get rid of him for good?

1. I recognized him for who he was. The enemy of everything I wanted in this life.
2. I made a conscious decision that I wasn’t going to be that person anymore.
3. I made realistic goals with daily actionable steps instead of grandiose dreams
4. I started out small by doing 1 thing each day that I procrastinated doing the most.
5. I prayed for strength A LOT!!!
6. I started recognizing my negative thought patterns and changed them.
7. I stopped and looked at each choice I was making and weighed the consequences of them. This one alone really motivated me to start taking more action.

Over the course of time I also came to realize that one of the main reasons why I procrastinated was fear. I was afraid that if I really tried and failed it would prove what I truly thought about myself and that I was failure.

But…

Here is what I learnt as I started to take more and more action.
– Action brings results
– Failure at something doesn’t mean that I am a failure, only that I need to learn more.
– That I can succeed at things.

Can I say that I have reached all my goals and dreams yet?
No…
But I am a whole lot closer now than I was 5 years ago and I have reached some of them and one of them was YOU.

You see, I wanted to help people become the very best entrepreneurs they could be and to make a difference in their lives. When you read my blog posts you help me reach my goal and I want to say thanks.

Here is one other thing I did and that is I made myself accountable to other people to accomplish my goals. They had the right at any time to check in on me and see if I was doing what I was supposed to be doing. Talk about motivation. I knew they would ask me and I hated not having anything to show for it, so I forced myself to do things so I would look good.

Now though, I find I want to things and when I procrastinate for too long it eats at me and I have to get up and do it.

I hope that blog post has helped you. If you need personal help in this area or other areas of your business, I do have a few spots available in the next two weeks for personal coaching. I usually charge a whole lot more, but I know for many of you my normal fee would be way out of reach, so for the next two weeks you can get 1 hour of my time for $50 where we work on any aspect of your business that you want. We can do two half hour sessions or one full hour session the choice is yours.

Just last week, I coached someone in their business. She had ONE THING that was holding her back from reaching her goals and dreams and it frustrated and discouraged her beyond belief. She knew that if she could conquer this one thing her business would explode. So we talked and we worked on it together and guess what?

The next day she emailed me and told me that she was so excited because she is already getting RESULTS.

Sometimes having someone that you can trust to talk to about the thing that is holding you back can change your business forever.

If this is something that would interest you, just email me directly at info@kimthompsonpinder.com

Don’t miss out. You know that success is achievable and you also know what is holding you back. Do what every other successful person has done and that is get the help you need to overcome it and have the business and life that you want.

To Your Success,
Kim Thompson-Pinder

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In the first post we talk about setting goals and I just wanted to add two more things to that. When you are setting your goals always set them just beyond what you believe in your heart you can do. If you want to become really successful you are going to have to grow in not only your skills but your ability to conquer new things.

By making your goals just beyond your reach you are going to have to stretch yourself to do reach them and when you do that you will find the next level of success is closer then what you think.

The other thing is that you can use the same formula to figure out how many customers that you need to reach sales goal as well, so this is not just for building a team.

The One Action You Absolutely Need

There is one thing that is absolutely vital to your business and it is the thing that most people just won’t do. It is the key difference between the successful and the unsuccessful and that is…

PROSPECTING

Now were expecting some sort of magical, mystical thing or an extraordinary quality that only a ‘select few’ has that allows you to make excuses as to why you are not succeeding?

The reality is if you want to build a business and reap the financial success and recognition that you want you are going to have to put in the sweat hours of continually prospecting.

Some people think that certain people are ‘lucky’ and that is why they succeed, but I love Seneca’s definition that…

“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.”Tweet This

PROSPECTING IS THE ONE MANDATORY ACTION YOU NEED FOR YOUR BUSINESS!!!

And I can’t stress that enough. Here’s the thing. Nobody I know wakes up in the morning and goes, “Yeah, I have to go prospecting today.” In fact it is something that most people dread and that is because they don’t realize that prospecting is the key to success and something they should be excited about.

I think one of the things that stop people from prospecting is the fact that they haven’t found a way of doing that they like. I find that most people tend to have one or two ways that they really do well in, but if they haven’t figured out which ones they like best then they get frustrated and bored with recruiting and quit.

So the two mains to prospect is offline (locally) and online and you need to figure out which one works best for you. You can’t go by what others tell you is the best way and there will be times where you are going to have to do it differently from your leader and that is ok. The main thing is to find the one that works for you and then do it on a consistent basis to achieve results.

If you are looking to learn how to generate leads online there is no better training than MLSP. Not only do they give you all the training that you need, but also all the tools you need as well to succeed online. They will help you set up your website and also show you the best ways to use social media to build your business and the great thing is that they have a $10 Risk Free 10 Day Test Drive. You will have full access to everything to see if this works for you.

If you are more interested in offline local prospecting then check out my MLM Success 101 course for $19. There are ten videos that will show you everything you need to be able to go out and recruit someone this week.

Once you have found what works for you then just do it over and over and you will see results. Tweet This

Make a commitment to yourself that in 2016 you are going to do the actions needed to ensure your success. You will be so glad that you did.

To Your Success,

Kim Thompson-Pinder

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For me this is the most exciting time of year and the time of year that sets the pace that will determine my success for the rest of the year.
September is here! Yeah!!! And the question I have for you is, “Are you ready?”
You see the sooner that you start to prepare the more you will get out of it. Things quickly get busy in the fall season and you are going to miss out on opportunities because you didn’t take the time to prepare now.
So what sort of things should you be preparing?
1. YOUR GOALS
We are coming up to the time of year when you can get the most results for the least amount of work. People have had their rest and spent their money and now need a way to make more as the Christmas season approaches. How many people do you want to recruit between now and Christmas? How many new customers do you want to add? How much money do you want to be making by the end of the year? These are all great things to figure out when you are not in the rush of the season. They should be firmly set, so that as the season progresses you keep yourself going in the right direction and you don’t get distracted by other things.
2. YOUR SCHEDULE
This one is the most important. You need to determine now when things are still quieter how much time you are going to have to work on your business. Get a monthly calendar and put these things in it.
Your work schedule (if you have one)
• All your family’s activities (such as sports, extracurricular, religious) anything that happens on a regular basis
• Appointments (Doctor, Dentist, Bank, Hair Dresser) anything that you already have booked
• Prospecting times
• Regular team training times
• Other business activities that you do
One way that is useful for helping to keep everything on track is to highlight you schedule according to what category it falls under. So you can use one colour for work schedule, one for family and appointments and then another colour for your business activities. This makes it very easy to determine in one glance what is going on in your day.
3. YOUR MATERIALS
Have you received your Fall brochures, catalogues or recruiting material yet? This is a great time to get it all ready and if you have kids get them to help you. I know by this time in the summer my kids when they were little were getting bored and looking for fun things to do, so I let them help me and it got done quickly. Then when the time came to hand them out I wasn’t scrambling to get it ready in the midst of all the other things I had to do.
4. TRAINING
Do you need training in a specific area to help boost your business in the fall. The beginning of fall is a great time to figure out where your weak areas are then get yourself a program that is going to help you in that area. If you are looking for training on recruiting and how to talk to people about your business then check out MLM Success 101 and get the training you need for only $19.
Here is an area that many people struggle in and if they realized the truth, they could be set free from it forever and start seeing the results that they want, and that is…
5. SELF CONFIDENCE & SELF ESTEEM.
It is reported that 85% of people in North America suffer from it and they don’t have to.
There are ways to overcome it. I had to overcome it. In fact, if I hadn’t you wouldn’t be reading this blog post, because I never would have had the courage to write it!
When I finally realized that I didn’t have to let how I felt about myself stop me from doing anything I wanted in life, it totally changed me from the inside out. No longer did I say to myself, “I can’t do this.” Now I say, “What do I need to learn to be able to accomplish this goal and where can I find the training I need to do it?” I don’t look at how impossible it is, I look at the first step I can take to start moving myself towards it and YOU CAN LEARN HOW TO AS WELL.
It takes time and effort, but the best thing you can do is recognize what is there and start to change it.

So now is the time for you to get started and working for a great Christmas season.

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This summer has flown by and I can believe that we are already close to the end of August.

I am working on three projects that I hope are going to be of real help to you. One of them I will tell you about on Monday or Tuesday.

The other two are books that I hope to release around the beginning of September and the will be free to you as a thank you for being such a great supporter.

So now that we got the update done, onto today’s training.

As an entrepreneur it can be hard to keep yourself motivated and encouraged because in most cases it is only you. It can also be hard because most times our families just don’t get it. They think it should be easy because we don’t have a boss over us keeping us going and that is why it is hard!

We are accountable to only ourselves and if things are going bad we don’t have the motivation of being fired to keep us going.

So how do you keep yourself encouraged when things are hard?

1. Take Your Eyes Off Of The Problem
I know it may sound weird, but when you focus only on the problem it becomes bigger and bigger until it overwhelms you. Instead focus only on the solution. Brainstorm ideas on what can work to solve your problem and many times you will at least start to find the answer.

2. Be Thankful
Thankfulness has an incredible power in our life to change what seems insurmountable into something that can be overcome with time and patience. When we are grateful for what we have we open ourselves up to more.

3. Educate Yourself
Many times we run into obstacles because of things we do not know how to do. Many times I have been frustrated because of technical issues that seemed to be so daunting. I always would have to step back and realise that if someone else has done it so can I and I go to Google and type in my answer.
Many times the answer comes up and I can go on with my day or with bigger problems at least it gives me a place to start.

4. Pray
Now for some of you this will not apply and if you don’t believe in God I respect that, but for those of us that do, prayer is a powerful force that can peace and wisdom to any situation because the God who created everything has an answer for you.

I wish that I could tell that it is always easy to keep yourself encouraged, but that would be a lie. Some days it is hard work, but if you want to reach the success that you want then you need to do it or you will quit. So cheer up, there are better times ahead.

To Your Success,
Kim Thompson-Pinder

P.S. Another great way to find help is to ask others who have been there. I have a great group on Facebook called No Hype Network Marketing and I would love to have you be a part. Just click here to join the group and get yourself encouraged!

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One of the things I love about MLM is the fact that it is a business, but unlike other businesses you don’t have the massive outlay of money to get it started and you don’t have to create everything from scratch. You can literally plug yourself in and start seeing results right away!

That being said, success will not be handed to you on a silver platter with no effort on your part. There are some things you need to do to ensure that you become successful and we are going to look at 5 of them in this post.

1. You Have To Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
If you aren’t willing to learn and grow as a person, you will never be able to handle success. This is a journey and at each level there will be new things to challenge you that you will have to overcome.

2. Most Success Happens In The 3lbs Of Grey Matter Between Your Ears.
Believe it or not, success isn’t about what you have to deal with on the outside, it has everything to do with how you think feel and then act on that belief. Most people sabotage their own success because they don’t truly believe that they deserve it.

3. It Is Your Responsibility
The only way that you are going to succeed is if you take responsibility for your entire business both good and bad. Never place the blame for what happens on other people and what they did or did not do.

4. Be Willing To Provide Value Without Expecting Anything Back
The way to build this business to go above and beyond what anyone else does without expectation of getting something back. Give and it shall be given unto you. Do it because you care, not because you expect something in return and you will have more success then you can handle.

5. If You Do Nothing Else Be Consistent In Prospecting
This is the most important part of all. If you aren’t prospecting then your business isn’t growing but shrinking. This is the most required action and the one that is the least done. Successful MLMer’s are always prospecting they have done it so much it is in their blood.

If you follow these 5 things you too will have success in your business and in your life.

Did you know that I do daily training and encourage on social media? If you haven’t done so yet pick your favourite social media and connect with me there.

Facebook: www.facebook.com/haveyouhadenough
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To Your Success,
Kim Thompson-Pinder

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Many years ago, I was very discouraged in my business and I was struggling to get even minor results.

I felt guilty, I felt unworthy, I felt like everyone else could do it and I was the dummy that couldn’t. Just being honest.

I looked at everyone else’s success and I wanted it for myself, but I truly believed that only special, talented people could have it and I wasn’t any of those.

Even though that is what I thought deep down inside, God wanted more for me and He gave me an entrepreneurial spirit that just wouldn’t quit. So even though I didn’t believe in myself, that still small voice nagged me and wouldn’t let me quit.

I still can’t remember to this day how it happened, but I came across an incredible MLM teacher called Doug Firebaugh and after listening to him teach for the first time, I had hope again.

Here was a person who believed in me even though he had never met me. Not only did he inspire me but gave me practical tools to try to move my business forward and I have been following him ever since.

God has used him incredibly in my life, in fact there wouldn’t be an email for you to read right now if it wasn’t for him.

He and his wife Jody were the ones that helped me get my website started and encouraged me to write my first blog post (even though I had been told as a child that I couldn’t write and hadn’t written much since!)

They even read that first blog post and told me to post it because they thought it was good. (Which I did in fear and trembling.)

They encouraged me to get out of my comfort zone and try new things and even though some of them weren’t for me at that time, it planted seeds in me that are growing right now.

Which comes to the exciting news. I am doing a webinar Thursday night with Doug and you are invited to come!

As part of my Set Your Business On Fire Mentorship Program I am doing expert interviews with some of the best in our industry and I knew that there was only one person that I wanted to be the first one. The person who had had the greatest impact in my business.

And I want to give you the opportunity to get to know him for FREE.

So here is what I want to do. I am offering a one month FREE trial to Set Your Business on Fire.

In this program you get twice a month webinars that are going to teach and train you to be successful in all aspects of your business.

These are in depth looks at so many different topics, with practical how to advice that will show you step by step what you need to do to succeed. The great thing about this webinar is that you get to ask questions.

I will also be doing expert webinars at least once a month that are going to be turned into books on Amazon and you have an opportunity to be in these books and have your business promoted to thousands of people a year.

We also have a private Facebook group where you can go and get the support and encouragement you need for you business.

PLUS SO MUCH MORE…

As a special bonus you get my MLM Success 101 which teaches you everything you need to know to be able to recruit anyone, anywhere at anytime. It includes scripts, where to go what to say, what to do, how to overcome objections and how to get people to look at your presentation. And you get it for free.

All of this alone is worth more than $400 a month, but I understand where most of you are and I would never charge that.

I want to make it so that anyone can participate and get what they need to build the business that they want. So I am charging $47 a month…

BUT…

You are very special to me and I appreciate so much that you read my emails and allow me to teach you that I want to give something back, so for you it is only $37 a month and you get the first month free to try it out.

And yes you can cancel at anytime, no questions asked.

So what have you got to lose. NOTHING!

What have you got to gain. EVERYTHING!

So click here to sign up today. Just a quick note. When you are on the order form it says $37 a month, but when you buy it the first month is free and you will not be charged!

Once you are in the membership area you will be able to go and register for the webinar Thursday night!

To Your Success,
Kim Thompson-Pinder

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Do you spend a lot of time chasing after people who really don’t want to be a part of your business and feel frustrated because of it?

Were you taught that everyone needs your business and that you can change everyone’s lives? That it is your job to convince them?

What about quantity is better than quality?

How about recruit, recruit, recruit, throw them up against the wall like mud and see who sticks?

I am so tired of all the things that people are taught that only create frustration and ultimately cause people to quit.

I spent so many years barking up the wrong tree and wondering why I was such a failure.

While I do believe in talking to a lot of people about my business and I do, I don’t chase people anymore that aren’t right for my business.

What would you rather have a thousand person team that doesn’t do much and you spend hours a day babysitting and trying to convince them to stay and do something, while constantly having to push people into your business to replace the constant stream of people who are leaving…

OR…

A hundred person team of reps who are reliable, who work their business, support you and are a great foundation to build the business you want and they consistently bring you in an income.

So when you are recruiting and someone is not interested let it go and move onto the next person.

If someone is sort of interested then do the proper follow up to determine if they are a good fit.

If someone really wants to join, then get them started right by investing in their training.

Don’t be desperate. There are lots of people interested in being entrepreneurs and building a business and you job is prospect enough people consistently to find the right ones for your business.

In the beginning it can be hard as you are doing a lot of work and not seeing as many results as you want, but as your business grows and momentum starts to kick in you will be so glad that you paid the price and barked up the right tree.

You may be thinking to yourself at this moment, “That’s great if you already know how to recruit?”

Or you may be thinking, “I have been taught the wrong way to recruit and I really need to learn the right way.”

Or maybe you already know how to recruit, but you haven’t figured out a duplicable system to be able to teach your team members how to recruit so that you can move levels.

If you are in any of these situations then you need to check out my newest training program MLM Success 101, ten videos that are going to show you everything you need to be able to go out and recruit someone within the next week.

Just imagine what it would be like to be out and about, doing your daily thing and by the end of the day you have one person interested in your business and a couple of new customers.

How would it feel to be able to walk up to someone you think might be really good for your business and you know what to say to get then to take a look at your presentation?

Would your business grow?

And what if it is simple enough that you can learn it quickly, start using it and be able to teach it to your team members at the same time?

Would that make a difference in how much money you are bringing in each month?

So make sure that you check out MLM Success 101 I have it priced at $19.95 right now, but I am not sure how long it will stay that way.

I have priced it in such a way that everyone can afford it and start seeing results.

To Your Success,
Kim Thompson-Pinder

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Part of my journey to success was having someone who recognized my potential and believed in me, and if you don’t have someone like that then you definitely need to read today’s post.

There are times in your life when you just need someone to believe in you. Someone who understands your struggles buts also knows the incredible potential you have. When that happens know that I Believe In You.
There are times when people make fun of your dreams and try to steal your joy. They think that there is no way that you can accomplish it, but I want you to know that I Believe In You.
There will times when you will come across obstacles and things that will try to block your path and you have to make a choice, to give in or become better, stronger and faster and when that time comes know that I Believe In You.
There will be times when everything in you says that this is too hard and that you are not strong enough to reach that goal and when that happens know that I Believe In You.
There will be times when the way is unclear and you are not sure which way to go because there are either too many options or not the option that you want. Know that I Believe In You to make the right choice.
I Believe In You because deep down inside you know that you were created for greatness and success. There is something in you that just won’t quit no matter what may come your way.
I Believe In You because you have been given special gifts and abilities from God that He wants you to use to make a change in this world starting with yourself.
And lastly, I Believe In You because you are worth believing in.

Don’t forget to remind yourself today that YOU ARE WORTHY and that there is nothing that can stop you unless you let it.

To Your Success,
Kim Thompson-Pinder

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I walked into the kitchen and I panicked as I saw a ton of suds coming out of the dishwasher and onto the floor.

Now any reasonable person when they didn’t know what to do would call for help, but me being me just had to do something fast.

Can you guess what I did?

Yep, I opened up the dishwasher door without shutting it off first. Yikes!

So picture this, a kitchen with three to four feet of suds on the floor and still more is coming out and then I really panicked!

But let me take you back to the beginning of the story.

I was 9 years old and my Dad had called form work to make sure that I had run the dishwasher before he got home from work and the good daughter (most of the time) that I was, went to do it.

It was at that point that I realized that there was no dishwasher soap and instead of asking a neighbour for some (we lived in a big apartment building) I just assumed (always a bad thing) that liquid dish soap would work just as well and now I had this humungous mess that I had no clue how to clean up.

I was so stressed. My Dad was going to be mad when he got home and saw the mess and I was embarrassed because I had let it happen in the first place that I didn’t think to go and ask for help.

Have you ever been in that situation in your business. Embarrassed, because your business is not going the way that you want, but you don’t want to let people know because aren’t MLM businesses supposed to build themselves with very little effort?

You watch all these other people do it and you struggle to figure out how they are doing it…

OR…

Maybe you were like me in my first 12 years of my MLM business and I asked everyone for help. I desperately wanted to learn how to build a business, how to get lots of customers and recruits, but the most I got was, “Talk to people.”

As if that would help me build my business.
Thankfully all that changed for me 8 years ago when I got a mentor that would show me what I needed to know to recruit like crazy and get customers.

And now I want to do the same for you. That’s why I created the Set Your Business On Fire Mentorship Program.

At least 2 extensive training webinars a month on everything you need to know to build your business the right way and these will be very interactive, where you get to have your questions answered.

I will also be doing Expert Webinars. I am going to be doing webinars with some of the best in this industry and you will be able to interact with them.

Just imagine being able to ask questions of your favourite guru. Just wait to see who I get to be on these webinar’s.

Want instant answers and support in your business? You will be able to get it through our private Facebook group, where you will also get additional training.

What about being able to talk to me personally about anything you want concerning your business?

You will be able to. You will get a 30 minute session with me every two months.

Most of you know that I write books for Amazon and I will be writing more this year. How would you like to have FREE preview copies of my book and a chance to have your name in lights in the book?

You will when you join the program. Also you get a big discount on any future products that I create.

Now I bet that you are wondering the price. Well, I have made it so that anyone can afford it. It was going to be $67 a month and it probably will be that at some point, so I settled at $47, still a really good price, but I wanted to do something more as a thank you for being such a great customer so I came up with two things.

The price for THIS WEEK ONLY will be $37 a month OR you can pay a one time fee of $149 and have lifetime access to the program.

So there is no reason why you can’t finally build the business that you want. PLUS I have some great bonuses for you worth $500.

You will get my MLM Success 101 which teaches you what you need to know to go out and get recruits and customers THIS WEEK. I will be selling it soon for $47 but it is your for free.

You also get five great ebooks on topics that aren’t usually covered in business but are so vitally important like killing procrastination in your life and…

You also get a workshop including worksheets on what might be holding you back in business and what to do about it.

Now is the time to get the help you need to build the business you want for yourself and your family. Don’t miss out. This special pricing is only available until 11:59 this Friday and then it is gone. Click here to join.

To Your Success,
Kim Thompson-Pinder

P.S. Yes, I did get it cleaned up before my Dad got home and he didn’t know about it, until the landlord cam by that night to tell us that there had been water leaking into the apartment below.
My Dad gave me that frustrated look he would get when I did really silly things and asked me what happened.
Then I really panicked and started crying and talking a million miles a minute explaining what had happened and how panicked I felt and by the time I was done both the landlord and my Dad felt so sorry for me that they both just told me to never do that again, that liquid soap wasn’t for dishwashers and I could breathe a sigh of relief and go back to my favourite book I was reading.

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So in part 1 of this series we looked at the first 8 reasons why people give up including allowing themselves to be beaten down, feeling that the world owes them something, dwelling on mistakes, they give up when they fail, they expect results too fast, they focus on the wrong things and because of that they are overwhelmed an then last but not least they fear what they do not know.

Here is one thing I have learned on my journey to success, at times it will seem like everything is coming against you to stop you from achieving it. That is when the temptation to quit is the greatest and that is when you have to dig in your heels and stand and say to yourself, “I am not going to quit no matter what. I will do this,” and you find a way. There is always a way.

 

So let’s look at the next 8 reasons. As I was just writing this, a thought came to me and it was, “No wonder so many people quit, there are so many things trying to get you to quit. It seems like there are more reasons to quit then to get the success that you want.” Make the decision right now that you are not going to let these things take you out and rob you of the success that can be yours.

 

Reason #9 You Give Up Your Power

Basically, that is allowing other people to dictate your future. You are the only one who can determine your future and you should never let anyone else’s negative words or actions have power in your life to take from you.

You also can’t based you future on other people’s opinions of you. If you struggle with this then I want to think of it this way. Imagine a bubble around yourself and not just any bubble, this is a special bubble because it keeps out any harmful, negative words.

When someone says something that is trying kill, steal or rob your future it just bounces off and it can’t get inside of you.

The truth is, you have that bubble, you have the choice to let words inside of you and affect you. You make the choice to let them harm you and you make the choice to believe them.

You can also choose to not let them in and harm you. Here is how you do it. When the words are said the first thing you say to yourself is, “That’s not true, I am not……, and I don’t care what they say, I am going to accomplish this,” and then you choose to forgive them.

The wonderful thing about forgiveness is that it frees you from the effects of the other person’s actions so that you can continue to move forward unhindered by them.

Forgiveness is not about the other person, forgiveness is about you being from their grasp, and there is nothing like it.

 

Reason #10 You Are Stuck In The Past

The best thing I can say about that is to let it all go. If you spend all your time focusing on the past you will never move forward. It is done and there is nothing you can do to change it. What you can change is your present and your future, so focus on that instead.

You are not your past, no matter what happened, so leave it there and become the person you want to be in the future starting today.

 

Reason #11 You Resist Change

On your journey to success there will be things about yourself that stay the same and they are good things, but there are things that you are going to have to change. There are skills you are going to have to learn, there are thinking patterns you are going to have to give up, there may be people that you have to stop hanging around with because they are dragging you down and you will probably have to take more action then you have ever done in your whole entire life. One definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over again and expecting different results. So if you are not getting the results that you want then you are going to have to change to get to where you want to be.

 

Reason # 12 Your Desire For Success Is Less Than Your Fear Of Failure.

Here is one thing you might as well accept and accept it quickly. You are going to fail at times on your road to success. Success is not this straight upward climbing road that never has any twist or turns in it. In fact the road to success is usually here, there and everywhere and you usually feel like your are moving backwards when you are actually moving forwards. I have learned as much from my failures as I have from my successes.

 

Reason #13 Never Dream About What Is Possible

To reach success you have to have faith that you are going to get there even when you can’t see it with your human eyes and day dreaming about your future is a great way to build your faith and remind yourself what you are working towards.

 

Reason # 14 You Think That You Are The Only One Struggling

It is hard to achieve success when you think that you are the only one who is having a hard time. You look at all those successful people and how easy they have it now and you mistakenly believe that because you are not there that maybe you are not worthy or that is just isn’t for you.

The truth is you are seeing the end result of all the struggles that they went through and overcame. They had to struggle just like you might be doing right now. They only difference between you and them is that they are further down the road then you. That’s all.

 

Reason #15 Feel That They Have Something To Lose

There is a really strange fear out there called fear of success and that is where you actually afraid that success will change things so much that you won’t be able to accept it and that people won’t like you anymore.

Yes, success does change some things, but only the things you let it change and you don’t have to change your moral compass just because you have money. Money just allows the really good thing in you to be expressed even more.

 

Reason #16 You Spend Most Of You Time In A Pity Party

Now before you get all upset, we all go through times when we feel sorry for ourselves, the big thing is how long and what you do with it. If you are wallowing in self pity and always blaming everyone else for your lack of success then you will never succeed. On the other hand if you recognize it quickly, shake it off and start moving towards your goal again, then you w ill succeed.

You are responsible for your own success and you need to take charge of your emotions and tell them how to feel, not the other way around.

 

So I hope that that this series has helped you recognize some things in yourself so that when they happen you can look at them and say, “I know you, you are trying to steal my future and I am not going to let you. Go Away!”

 

Everyone is tempted at time to quit, but the truly successful have their eyes set in the goal and are not going to let anything stop them, including themselves.

 

So don’t forget to check out the webinar tonight. Click here to register.

 

To Your Success,

Kim Thompson-Pinder

 

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